“Don’t listen to these stories when you’re seeking business advice.”

Someone asked a famous marketing guru (clearly a celebrity archetype), “What’s your secret of success?”

Her story was, “I invited my women friends over to my apartment in the city. At the time I was into a form of wellness coaching. From those meetings came group coaching.”

She could have added, “And then…my empire!”

I heard that story just after I‘d moved to a new city, where I shared a home with two very furry cats and one very furry dog.

A business meeting of prospective clients — mostly strangers — would be drowned out by itching, sneezing, and cries of “No! Don’t do that!!”

Anyway, my clients were (and are) busy men and women who prefer to do business remotely. Even when we’re in the same city, we get on a zoom call, with no interruptions and cameras off.

The real takeaway from any “Here’s what I did” story isn’t the method, but rather the notion of having a system.

You pretty much have to come up with your own system, by trial and error.

When I first got started online, I kept hearing about a coaching consultant who advocated:

“Hold breakfast meetings in your home with local opinion leaders.”

That’s a really bad idea if you can’t cook, your kitchen is small, and your toaster tends to set off the fire alarm.